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English Course · Level 4 (B1+) · Week 12 of 12

Personal Goals

Grammar: Gerund or infinitive? remember, forget, stop, try, regret — change of meaning

This week's plan

30 minutes a day: review, learn, listen, practise, speak. Day 7 is a free day. Tap a resource to find it.

30 words to learn

Set 1 · Setting goals

  • set a goalيضع هدفًا
  • aim forيسعى إلى / يستهدف
  • aspire toيطمح إلى
  • long-termطويل المدى
  • realisticواقعي
  • a to-do listقائمة مهام

Set 2 · Motivation

  • motivatedمتحمّس / عنده دافع
  • determinedمصمِّم / عازم
  • commitmentالتزام
  • stick toيلتزم بـ
  • keep goingيستمر / يكمّل
  • self-disciplineالانضباط الذاتي

Set 3 · Obstacles

  • procrastinateيماطل / يؤجّل عمله
  • a stumbling blockعقبة / حجر عثرة
  • fear of failureالخوف من الفشل
  • lack of timeضيق الوقت
  • get distractedيتشتت
  • give inيستسلم / يرضخ

Set 4 · Verbs that change meaning

  • rememberيتذكر
  • forgetينسى
  • stopيتوقف
  • tryيحاول / يجرّب
  • go onيستمر / ينتقل إلى الخطوة التالية
  • meanيقصد / يعني

Set 5 · Celebrating success

  • reachيصل إلى
  • pay offيؤتي ثماره / يجيب نتيجة
  • reward yourselfيكافئ نفسه
  • track your progressيتابع تقدمه
  • a sense of achievementشعور بالإنجاز
  • a dream come trueحلم تحقّق

10 sentences to memorise

  1. 1I remember feeling nervous on my first day at work.أتذكر أنني شعرت بالتوتر في أول يوم لي في العمل.
  2. 2Please remember to send me the report before Thursday.من فضلك تذكّر أن ترسل لي التقرير قبل يوم الخميس.
  3. 3I stopped eating sugar two months ago.توقفت عن تناول السكر منذ شهرين.
  4. 4On the way to Alexandria, we stopped to have lunch.في الطريق إلى الإسكندرية، توقفنا لنتناول الغداء.
  5. 5Try going to bed earlier — it might help you concentrate.جرّب أن تنام مبكرًا؛ فقد يساعدك ذلك على التركيز.
  6. 6I tried to call you, but your phone was off.حاولت أن أتصل بك، لكن هاتفك كان مغلقًا.
  7. 7I regret not learning English when I was younger.أندم لأنني لم أتعلم الإنجليزية عندما كنت أصغر سنًّا.
  8. 8We regret to inform you that the course has been cancelled.يؤسفنا أن نبلغك بأن الدورة قد أُلغيت.
  9. 9I'll never forget meeting my favourite writer.لن أنسى أبدًا لقائي بكاتبي المفضل.
  10. 10Set realistic goals and stick to them.ضع أهدافًا واقعية والتزم بها.

Grammar: Gerund or infinitive? remember, forget, stop, try, regret — change of meaning

Some verbs change their meaning: verb + -ing usually looks back (the action happened before); verb + to-infinitive usually looks forward (the action comes after).

remember / forget + -ing = a memory · remember / forget + to = a duty · stop + -ing = finish an activity · stop + to = stop in order to do something · try + -ing = an experiment · try + to = make an effort · regret + -ing = sorry about the past · regret + to = formal bad news.

في العربية «تذكرت أن أغلق الباب» و«أتذكر أنني أغلقت الباب» جملتان مختلفتان، وكذلك في الإنجليزية، لكن الفرق يظهر في شكل الفعل: remember to lock (تذكرت واجبًا ففعلته) و remember locking (ذكرى لشيء حدث). أشهر خطأ: I stopped to smoke ويقصد المتكلم «أقلعت عن التدخين»، لكنها تعني «توقفت لكي أدخّن»! والصحيح I stopped smoking. القاعدة البسيطة: ing تنظر إلى الماضي، و to تنظر إلى المستقبل.

Verb+ -ing+ to-infinitive
rememberI remember visiting Luxor as a child. (a memory)Remember to buy bread. (don't forget to do it)
forgetI'll never forget seeing the pyramids. (a memory)I forgot to call my mother. (I didn't call her)
stopHe stopped smoking. (he doesn't smoke now)He stopped to smoke. (he stopped walking in order to smoke)
tryTry drinking warm water. (an experiment)I tried to open the door, but it was locked. (an effort)
regretI regret leaving school early. (I'm sorry I did it)We regret to tell you … (formal bad news)
go onShe went on talking for an hour. (continued)After her degree, she went on to do a master's. (next step)
meanBeing a doctor means working long hours. (involves)I meant to call you, but I forgot. (intended)

Wrong: I stopped to smoke last year. ✔ I stopped smoking last year.

Wrong: Don't forget locking the door. ✔ Don't forget to lock the door.

Negative forms: I regret not studying harder. · Try not to worry.

Exercises

Exercise 1 · Choose the correct form.

  1. 1) Did you remember (to lock / locking) the door?
  2. 2) I'll never forget (to see / seeing) the sunrise over Aswan.
  3. 3) On his way to work, he stopped at a kiosk (to buy / buying) a newspaper.
  4. 4) I've stopped (to drink / drinking) coffee in the evening.
  5. 5) If you can't sleep, try (to drink / drinking) a glass of warm milk — it might help.
  6. 6) I tried (to lift / lifting) the box, but it was too heavy.
Show the answers
1) to lock 2) seeing 3) to buy 4) drinking 5) drinking 6) to lift

Exercise 2 · Complete with the -ing form or the to-infinitive.

  1. 1) I regret ___ (not / accept) that job offer.
  2. 2) We regret ___ (inform) you that your flight is delayed.
  3. 3) Don't forget ___ (track) your progress every week.
  4. 4) I remember ___ (feel) proud when I got my first salary.
  5. 5) After a short break, the teacher went on ___ (explain) the same lesson.
  6. 6) Omar finished his degree and went on ___ (become) a successful engineer.
Show the answers
1) not accepting 2) to inform 3) to track 4) feeling 5) explaining 6) to become

Exercise 3 · What does it mean? Choose a or b.

  1. 1) I stopped to eat. a) I didn't eat any more. b) I stopped what I was doing so that I could eat.
  2. 2) I remember posting the letter. a) I have a memory of posting it. b) I must post it later.
  3. 3) Try adding some salt. a) Do it and see if it tastes better. b) It's very difficult to add salt.
  4. 4) She forgot to call him. a) She called him but doesn't remember it. b) She didn't call him.
  5. 5) I regret telling him. a) I told him, and I'm sorry I did. b) I'm sorry, but I have bad news for him.
  6. 6) He went on to study law. a) He continued studying the same subject. b) Studying law was his next step.
Show the answers
1) b 2) a 3) a 4) b 5) a 6) b

Exercise 4 · Translate into English.

  1. 1) أقلعت عن التدخين منذ عامين.
  2. 2) تذكّر أن تضع أهدافًا واقعية.
  3. 3) أندم لأنني لم أذاكر بجدٍّ أكبر.
  4. 4) حاولت أن أستيقظ مبكرًا، لكنني كنت متعبًا جدًا.
  5. 5) لن أنسى أبدًا رؤية الأهرامات لأول مرة.
Show the answers
1) I stopped (gave up) smoking two years ago. 2) Remember to set realistic goals. / Don't forget to set realistic goals. 3) I regret not studying harder. / I regret not having studied harder. 4) I tried to get up early, but I was too tired. / I tried to wake up early, but I was very tired. 5) I'll never forget seeing the pyramids for the first time. / I'll never forget seeing the Pyramids for the first time.

Do each exercise in pencil first, then open the answers to check.

Write & Speak

Write & Speak — “My goals for next year”: write 150–200 words about one or two important goals: why they matter, what obstacles you expect and how you will keep going. Use remember, stop, try and regret with -ing or to. Then record yourself and listen again in three months.

Example: Next year I have two important goals. The first is to reach B2 level in English and get 6.5 in the IELTS exam. My dream is to do a master's degree abroad, and I'll need English for that. I still remember feeling embarrassed in a job interview two years ago because I couldn't answer a simple question in English. I never want to feel like that again. The second goal is to get fit. I've already stopped drinking fizzy drinks, and I'm going to try walking to work three days a week instead of taking a microbus. I know there will be obstacles. I often procrastinate, and I get distracted by my phone in the evening. Last year I tried to study every night, but I gave in after two weeks because my plan wasn't realistic. This time I'll study for thirty minutes a day, track my progress in a notebook and reward myself after every milestone. I don't want to look back and regret wasting another year. If I stick to my plan, I'm sure I'll achieve my goals.